Alpha Eta Rho (AHP)


I think it's about time that I wrote a little about the International Aviation Fraternity that I’ve joined since coming to Lewis University. Wikipedia describes Alpha Eta Rho as "a coed international professional college aviation fraternity that serves as a contact between the aviation industry and educational institutions... The alumni of the fraternity are found in all facets of the aviation industry and related management fields. These include airline captains, military aviation Flag Officers, corporate CEO's, NASA engineers, flight attendants, aircraft mechanics, aviation museum directors, aerospace engineers, and pilots. There are currently over 45,000 Alumni of Alpha Eta Rho, with over 1,000 new members pledging each year."
I went through the process to join last semester and it’s opened up a host of Aviation opportunities as a Student here. During the process I had to write a paper for the fraternity that detailed why I decided to join and considering I ‘made the cut’, I’ll assume the paper is good enough to share with you here.

Why AHP? by Joe Burlas
The simple, shallow, and meaningless answer to my now burning desire to join your organization is that I was in Aviation Meteorology one morning and you were offering donuts next door. I’ve never believed in the fraternity or sorority system. I’ve always felt like it was a group of people who got together because they were all at the same place at the same time and decided to create artificial bonds and titles amongst each other at the cost of money, time, and energy. Amazingly, Alpha Eta Rho redefined the way I think in only the last three weeks.

It began with the donuts. On that morning in particular, I was quite hungry and when given a fifteen minute break from class I walked over to the AHP spread and grabbed two. Not wanting to be rude while the active members stood near, I asked Michael Mazzoni what his organization was about. I was expecting Mr. Mazzoni to give me the standard: “Oh it’s about brotherhood, watching each other’s backs, and doing [random] things together” rhetoric that I’ve previously heard other organizations throw my way. Yet to my lasting surprise, his response was instead more about the organizations’ passion for aviation and the collaborative environment that it facilitated for the members. This left me thinking.

Now it’s very important to point out my feelings on brotherhood. While it’s a topic I’ve already had to write about prior to this paper, my feelings on brotherhood are at the center of my change of heart. In my mind, when someone you just met and know nothing about promises you bonds of brotherhood and calls of duty without providing any sort of glue to hold that bond together, you should run in the other direction. It is the weak mind that answers a call to serve with no reason to do so. Such things place undue burden on a person and detract from a meaningful life. For Brotherhood to be real it cannot be promised nor can it be handed out. Brotherhood is like love, trust, or admiration; it has to be forged in earnest in an environment that facilitates those bonds. Therefore, if you cannot promise to love, trust, or admire a stranger, how can you then promise to be his brother? You can’t.

Yet instead of promising me Brotherhood paid in full, Mike promised me an environment for Brotherhood in which to grow professionally with other people that share the same passion. It was with that thought that I ended up freeing my Tuesday night and going to the official Rush. I’m happy I did. It was in the spirit of rush night and seeing how the group acted together, that I had all the answers I needed. Much like a family, they did not act too seriously yet just seriously enough while maintaining focus. In the words of Sarah Eberwein, “We want you to be a part of what I consider my family but we have to see that you want it first”. Had she told us how much of a family we were all about to become, I might not have come back the next Tuesday.

In the course of my life I’ve gone through a lot and through that I’ve been privileged enough to have been a part of many brotherhoods. That being said, I know an opportunity when I see one. AHP is not about Brotherhood, it is a Brotherhood. I still feel like most other organizations don’t understand the difference; however I chose AHP because they do.
"Every small positive change we make in ourselves repays us in confidence in the future." - Alice Walker
Alpha Eta Rho (AHP) Alpha Eta Rho (AHP) Reviewed by Joe Burlas on February 15, 2011 Rating: 5

19 comments

  1. I found your article to be insightful and it was interesting to read your somewhat amusing story of how you were first introduced to Alpha Eta Rho!

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  2. I'm really impressed with your insight about brotherhood. Your thoughts about how brotherhood is really formed make a lot of sense - that it can't be given away or promised - because true respect, love, and trust can't be promised. Thank you for sharing!

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  3. This article brought many new perspectives of brotherhood to mind and helped me conclude more about what I consider brotherhood to be. A real fraternity makes brotherhood the first priority and never undermines that trust. However, with trust you must also have love in order for a brotherhood to be a family. Thank you for the post!

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  4. Emily Fearheiley
    Although I did not have the same view of brotherhood as you did, I do see you point. And find it very interesting point of view.

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  5. Midra Malik

    We kinda started out the same way. I was working the career conference and went over to the table to kill time and I started talking to Pitts even though I did not know him very well. As we started talking I asked about AHP and what they do and all and he explained things to me and I did not get the answer I was expecting either because I had the same view on Greek life...a bunch of people wanting to get together to take part in nonsense activities and have something to do and people to party with. Now that I have gone through almost the entire process I have learned that this fraternity has much more to offer.

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  6. I always enjoy hear how the current actives got introduced to Alpha Eta Rho. You have great insight on brotherhood.

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    1. Thanks Shuey. If you're ever wondering, this is still my assignment for the new guys to this day. You can always read their responses below.

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    2. Thanks Burlas, I'll go read what they put.

      -Neil

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  7. honestly, i don't remember much about how i got turned onto AHP. i remember it was mostly because Amanda was friends with pretty much the entire organization freshman year and suggested that i come to the informal as a first semester freshman... she kind of explained that is was a aviation fraternity and that is was focused not on partying hard and waking up with massive hangovers on school days, but it was about making friends that last, and making connections throughout the aviation industry. i figured there is nothing better than starting an aviation carreer than doing it with aviation minded friends arround to help you along if you get stuck. anyway i (and this is worded better than the "why AHP" paper) missed the informal as a first semester freshman (i learned later that even if i went i wouldnt be able to join until i got a lewis GPA) but i kept it in mind for my second semester and went out for it. it was fun, but sadly i didnt meet some of the stardards, so thats why im here to try abain and improve :) ...

    the reason i like your experience better, though, is because it started with the smallest thing... you were hungry, and we had doughnuts :) ... haha just goes to show you, everything happens for a reason.

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  8. AHP to me has become a family to me already. I also was a bit sketchy about the whole Greek thing before coming to college. I always envisioned frats as an excuse to get hammered and torture the new guys.

    As I got to know people on campus last year I noticed a big group of people all hanging out together. I could tell right away that the group I saw together was not just a friendship. Julisa Vasquez told me that this was AHP. I knew instantly that i wanted to become a part of that family.

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  9. Michael Kosin,

    I understand your feelings about joining the Greek Sytem apon arriving on cmapus. It is the same way I felt when I joined Delt at UND. The greek system offers family tand the opportunity for brotherhood. You have heard my explanation of brotherhood before and I am sure you understand that words cannot describe it. The true meaning can only be learned when you are at the point of breaking down when you learn who your brother really are. Upon initiation you enter brotherhood as you venture into the fraternity and learn her secret ways and mysteries then you find out who you really are and who are your real friends.

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  10. I like your post. Your comment on brotherhood is true. When I went to the Civil Air Patrol's Summer Encampment as a basic cadet, my flight commander told us that we would be brothers by the end of the week. Yes, we were close, but almost none of us keep in touch anymore. Your story shows that this will (hopefully) be more of a true brotherhood than my fellow cadets from that encampment.

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  11. John Przybyla,

    Your essay was very insightful, I agree with you when you mentioned that brotherhood was not something than can be easily handed out(such as a free donut...or two) but rather forged. Since thats what makes the brotherhood so strong and meaniful. Not that you are brothers but that you became brothers, through the good times and the bad.

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  12. Lana Barakat
    I love how something as simple as donuts can turn into a life changing event. It's something that doesn't happen often, but when it does it impacts your heart, mind, and soul.
    As you were saying brotherhood has become a center for you and something as special as that is not easily acquired. However once it is acquired, it is one of the hardest things to
    break. I've seen that time and time again even through the little time that I have spent with this group. I love seeing you all come together as a family and hope to one day be a part of this brotherhood

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  13. Joe Glotz
    I find it encouraging to hear your story of how you came to AHP because it is similar to mine. I NEVER would have thought I would pledge for a fraternity. However, one day on my walk to class I passed an AHP table with popcorn and this gave me enough motivation to look into it a little more. As I went to some of the first events I really liked the connection that everyone had in the fraternity and also their passion for aviation just like me. The more I looked into it the more I want to share in this passion that everyone in AHP has for aviation and also share in the Brotherhood as you described in this article.

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  14. Mason Menigoz
    Reading your article, it reminded me of how became involved in AHP. My story actually started the first day of class. I sat down did not know a single person. Some how i sat down next to Ethan. Quickly we became friends. And it was Ethan who convinced me to go to the informal rush. Everyone there was awesome and I didn't have any friends on campus at this point. While i was unable to complete the rushing process that semester, i still became close friends with all the actives. I may not be a full member but i have experienced some small part of this brotherhood. I am glad to have experienced this because when i started i thought i was joining a club. Now i know i'm trying to join a family.

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  15. Eric Swanson
    Though I still have yet to experience the full effect of brotherhood in this fraternity, I hope to learn more about this through the next few months and years to come. I find it interesting that you found that other organizations did not meet or fulfilled the definition of brotherhood as well as AHP did. I’m glad to hear that this brotherly connection that was advertised initially was actually and is still practiced to this day within AHP. I can’t wait to finally be able to work with the other actives and learn more about people so that I can deepen my personal relationships with the other members and learn the true meaning of brotherhood.

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  16. Robert (Bob) Bryan

    I thoroughly enjoyed your post about AHP. Imagine how your future could have been different if you chose not to get the donuts that day. You write very well. There were many memorable quotes. For example, I liked when you said, "For Brotherhood to be real it cannot be promised nor can it be handed out." This shows that brotherhood is something that must be developed.
    I think it would be great to write something like this in the future if I cross!

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  17. Daniel Pacella
    I first heard about AHP from some flight students during SOAR. After that I had decided to go to the informal rush during the fall, mainly because of the free pizza being served. I like how you said, AHP is not about brotherhood. AHP is brotherhood. I hope to learn what brotherhood really is not just some textbook definition. By learning what brotherhood really is I would have gained something more valuable than any monetary value Incould recieve as an airline captain.

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